What would be the reaction of a man if he was caught being lazy? A man who has been caught cheating will usually act coldly. There are three reasons for this. First, when faced with your accusatory interrogation, he will first build a defensive wall in his heart. He is afraid of communicating with you and also afraid of arguing. So the expression is cold. Second, in her heart she blames you for the infidelity. You are not gentle and do not understand him, so he cheated. Third, she also plans to continue her relationship with the third party. She wants to keep you at a distance so that the three-person relationship can continue. When faced with a man’s indifference after cheating, you must weigh the pros and cons and plan your next move carefully.
Seven signs a man can’t hide after cheating
Some relationships may seem peaceful on the surface, but in reality they are hiding countless lies and betrayals. Some men may say they love you, but they are cheating on you with other women.
Once a man has cheated, no matter what he has done, he will eventually reveal himself.
There are seven telltale signs of a cheating man that a smart woman must detect as soon as possible.
1. Taking a shower as soon as he gets home.
Generally speaking, when a man is tired from work, he will first rest for a while to relax, and will not take a shower right away.
Sometimes, if they are drunk and too tired, they won’t bother washing their hair even if they stink, and just go to bed.
But if a man is the first thing he does when he gets home is rush into the bathroom to take a shower, then there is most likely a problem.
Maybe he just wants to wash off the marks left on his body as soon as possible, and there is still some smell, just so you won’t notice.
2. The mobile phone never leaves his side.
If a man is obsessed with his mobile phone, and if you are the one who is constantly on edge, never letting go of your phone, even when you are in the shower, then you should be on your guard.
In particular, when you are nearby, he will deliberately cover the screen to prevent you from seeing it, and whenever there is a message or a call, he will look unhappy, making up excuses to go out, so as to avoid being found out.
Sometimes, when you’re not looking, he’ll even stare at your phone and smirk, and if you touch his phone, he’ll fly into a rage, emphasizing your privacy.
All these signs indicate that he’s hiding something, and he’s probably chatting up another woman, afraid that you’ll find out.
3. Start paying attention to your appearance
After being together for a long time, it’s inevitable that inertia will set in. Naturally beautiful women often neglect to dress up, let alone men.
If your other half, who was originally sloppy, suddenly starts paying attention to his appearance one day, starts dressing up, and becomes vain, it must be weird.
Maybe it’s to please his lover and be liked, so he goes to the gym, changes his hairstyle, sprays perfume, and buys clothes.
Neat and tidy, he inexplicably criticizes you, dislikes your appearance, and says you’re a yellow-faced woman.
If this happens, it means his heart is no longer with you.
3. Nothing is always good to you
As the saying goes, if someone is overly nice to you for no reason, they are either a scoundrel or a thief.
After many men have cheated, they feel guilty towards their wives and want to alleviate their unease and guilt through some kind of compensation.
He will suddenly be nice to you, take the initiative to do housework, send you flowers, buy you gifts, and do some very unusual things.
Think about it, you think he has a conscience, but in fact, half of it is to cover up the fact that he is cheating, and the other half is out of guilt towards you, so don’t be fooled.
4. No fun in “sex”.
After a man cheats, his desires are satisfied elsewhere, and naturally he has no interest in his wife when he comes home.
At critical moments, he will find all sorts of excuses to avoid you, saying that he is tired or sleepy. Eventually, you will find that you have no “sexual” interest in him.
For a long time, there has been less and less sex in the relationship. Even if there is, it is just routine, just to get you off.
You should know that if a man suddenly becomes sexually indifferent, there must be something fishy going on, and a woman must pay attention.
5. There is always a reason not to go home.
Once a person cheats, they will stop wanting to go home and often stay out late.
They will occasionally make excuses to go out, work overtime, go on business trips, or meet up with friends, and they are just not willing to spend time with you.
Sometimes, even if you have made plans to do something together, he will either pretend to forget or cancel it, most likely to go with another woman.
A man who always says he is busy and makes excuses to go out has actually already let his heart go.
6. Daily expenses are increasing.
If a man has a mistress, he won’t need to spend much.
After all is said and done, everything costs money: wedding dates, red envelope transfers, hotel room fees, Taobao payments, holiday gifts, etc.
If your husband is always complaining that there isn’t enough money to go around, or if he doesn’t give you any wages at all, then you need to be careful.
It is possible that he is spending all his money on other women.
It is said that the most unreliable person in the world is also the most reliable person in the world.
The world is so big, there are so many temptations, and love is so beautiful, but ultimately, it is impossible to beat men.
Women can be naive and kind, but they must never be foolish and blindly believe the lies of men.
No matter what, women must love themselves, and remember, never give a man who betrays you a second chance.
